What Does That Mean?

                When relationships struggle, people always tell you that you "just need to communicate more". But what does that really mean? It's actually a fairly broad topic.

                Those who tend to give the "more communication" advice tend to mean that you need to talk more often to each other. According to the dictionary, one definition of communication is "a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, signs, or behavior." But I would like to take it even further than that. I would like to add meaningful information should be passed between you. One can exchange all the information about WWII or what's going on in Wall Street and it will make little difference to the strength of your relationship.

                I appreciate the dictionary for stating that communication doesn't just happen through verbal cues, but there are many things we say by the tone we use, the way we position our bodies, or even the way our eyes look. This is where meaningful communication sprouts. We can say "That's great" and have it mean several different things. It can be enthusiastic, sarcastic, monotone (as a mere response), or hesitant. All have incredibly diverse connotations.

                Now it's not always easy to have that evocative communication with one another. But some helpful knowledge  I was given this week is how the Prophet and the general authorities counsel with each other.

                                1. Tell Them How Much You Love and Appreciate Them and All They Do

                                2. Pray

                                3. Discuss to CONSENSUS What the Lord's Will Is

                                4. Pray

                                5. Enjoy Treats Together

                When you have this sort of pattern, you tend to open up more to those you are engaging with.  You feel more comfortable and valued. This is the Lord's way of meaningful and effective communication.